Sunday, July 31, 2005

Save The Date!

Before I forget....

Friends of San Francisco Public Library 41st Annual Big Book Sale
Thursday, September 29 to Sunday, October 2, 2005
Festival Pavilion, Fort Mason Center
10:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. Thursday
10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. Friday, Saturday and Sunday

Members Preview Sale:
Wednesday, September 28th
5:00 - 8:00 p.m.

Last year I bought a cartload of books and they are super cheap! On the last day of the Book Sale, they sold everything for 25 cents! You can't beat that price. So Bing, send me a list of books you want coz you'll never know, I might find it there!

Roda, mark this one on your calendar. This is something you don't wanna miss!

Saturday, July 30, 2005

Piece Of Shit Phone!

Okay, my new phone has become like a relationship. I fell so in love with it that I thought it was the best fucking thing in the world. Then yesterday, it disappointed me. Just like a relationship gone bad.

First, I've only had this phone for 3 days. So I was trying to copy my phone number on my SIM to the phone's Address Book and it won't fucking let me! It would start to display a window that says "Copying to Adress Book" then it would freeze! Damn it. So I gave up.

Earlier today, I was surprised why I wasn't receiving any calls, emails or text messages. I thought it was odd. So I checked my phone and for some crazy reason it was "searching" fo a signal! And I was in an area where Ive always had a signal with my Motorola v200 and even my crappiest Nokia phones. Grrrrrrr. I am so mad!

It's a good thing I kept my Nokia phone in my dashboard. I had to switch back to it coz I wasn't getting any signal with this piece of crap blackberry phone. I might try the Blackberry phone again tomorow. And if it's still acting up then I guess it might just end up in the trash bin.

Friggin piece of shit!

Thursday, July 28, 2005

New Phone!





I got a new phone! Woohoooo! :)

It's a Blackberry 7100t. It's hard to get used to it, but who cares. I think it's cool so that's all that matters for now. Hehehe

I love it. I love it. I love it!




*I just changed the image to a picture I just took of this piece of crap phone.

Wednesday, July 27, 2005

The Best Chicken Adobo ;)

I made chicken adobo earlier, and trust me, it’s the best chicken adobo ever. ;) Here’s how I cooked it….

YOU CAN FIND THIS RECIPE IN MY NEW BLOG.... JUST CLICK HERE...

http://mydetours.blogspot.com/2007/11/best-chicken-adobo.html

It's the best ever!!! :)

Tuesday, July 26, 2005

Life is Good

Finally, my former boss called today and told me they are going to cut me a final check – the one from my old job. They messed it up last month and I have been trying to get my money from them. After almost a month of waiting, I finally heard a word from them. Well, I don’t have the check yet but at least I got his word so that’s good enough, for now.

I just got back from playing tennis. It’s been sometime since I played tennis and instead of being rusty, I actually did well. I had to call it a game around 9:15 coz I was beginning to get exhausted. It was fun though. I should do that more often.

Well, it was another good day at work today. I am almost ready to hit the sack but I am trying to find more information for a weekend hike my friends and I are planning to take. We’re thinking of going to Cathedral Lakes in Yosemite which is a 6-hour hike (I think) or maybe do Desolation Wilderness. I’m not sure yet which one we’d pick.

I guess that’s about it for today. I gotta get back on my hiking trail research. Can’t wait to get out in the wilderness again.

Life is great!

Sunday, July 24, 2005

Life's Principles

One thing I've learned in life is the fact that promises are shit. They're not worth anything. Not even promises written in blood. Promises don't guarantee anything.

So I decided to live my life without promises - I'm not making them and no, I am not asking for them. I think what we should do is to just do the best we can when we could. And never expect anything back.

Life should be easier that way. Life without promises means less hassle and less trouble.

And that's exactly what D and I have. We both know we care and love each other so much but given the distance and the uncertainty of what the future, D suggested it was best to keep our options open. No ties, no promises.

I told D though, that I care and love him so much that as of today's date, he's still the love of my life. I mean, c'mon, how the fuck can you stop loving somebody just like that? You can't. I can't. So I just have to live with the fact that I do love this man but I can't be with him. I will live my life to the fullest as I celebrate the fact that yes, I am capable of loving, even from a distance.

And he knows that I am aware about the unknown future. He doesn't know anything about the future and I don't neither. Hell, it would be a boring life if I knew what tomorrow holds. It would suck to know the future. And life wouldn't be as fun anymore. Who knows, I could even get into an accident and die later on my way to the gas station to fill up my car before I go to bed. Who knows? And sometimes, when I talk about dying, people around me seem to be terrified. They react like death should be some forbidden topic.

But I guess it's natural for people to fear the unknown. Death is an unknown, it's a mystery. But isn't it true that young as I am, I could still possibly die tomorrow or next week or I could die in my sleep tonight. No one knows.

And yet I choose to live my life to the fullest. Taking more time to appreciate the heat of the sun on my skin, the rustling of tree branches outside my window, just little things that make life more colorful and beautiful. One thing I've already learned from my job is to not sweat the small stuff. And I found out how life can be so much easier if you don't sweat the small stuff.

So Wave's life's principle # 1: No promises. Hell no.
and life's principle # 2 : Don't sweat the small stuff.

I'm sure more learnings will come. But for now, I will stick to these two principles as I continue to live this wonderful, crazy and exciting journey called life.

Saturday, July 23, 2005

What A Wonderful Life

I spent the most wonderful night with D last night. I opened the door and there he was - it was him. And I knew I wasn'd dreaming. He looked so gorgeous, so handsome right there, standing at the doorway.

I wrapped my arms around him, after about a month and a half of not being able to do so. I hugged him so tight I wanted to stay there forever. Then we shared the longest, sweetest, hungriest, most breathtaking kisses we've ever shared.

And the rest of the night was just out of this world. D. My D. You're everything....

Today was spent with family. We had a party at my cousin's house for my mom's, cousin's and grandma's birthday. More on that next time.

I'm just overflowing with so much happiness that I got a chance to be with D again, even if it was just for a brief visit. I'm glad to know that things are going great for him in Music City. I can feel it in my heart that far greater things are waiting for him.

You are awesome babe. And so wonderful.

You have a great job and you still found the time to care for a guy you didn't even know. You got him a job because when you looked into his eyes, you looked beyond a pair of big blue eyes. You took the time to look into his soul.

Babe, you are awe-inspiring.

Tuesday, July 19, 2005

It's Not Fair!



David Gray is coming to San Francisco 10 days before my birthday! But tickets are sold out already. It's not fair! :( I've always wanted to watch him perform.

All the tickets available online are way above the face value and no way I will pay that price.

Hmmm, maybe I would get lucky on Craigslist. Or probably get unlucky and pay for a fake concert ticket.

It's not fair! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

Anybody out there wanna sell me a David Gray ticket at the Fillmore Theater in San Francisco? I'm willing to pay $60 for it. That's almost double the face value. Please.......

Friday, July 08, 2005

Random Thought

Why does a piece of paper, like an 8" x 11" feel lighter when it is unfolded than when it's crumpled. E.g., try throwing a piece of paper in a trash bin froma distance. It won't make it if it's not crumpled. You have to crumple it in order for that piece of paper to make it to the trash bin.

I know, it's probably just simple physics but I was just amused by the thought. I was also thinking how it relates to life. You don't go through life unscathed. In order for you to make it somewhere, you have to be crumpled and wrinkled and pressed. Coz if you're like a piece of flat paper, the wind will just playfully toss you around.

But of course I don't wanna end up getting thrown in the trash bin. Know what I'm sayin?

Tuesday, July 05, 2005

At Lonsdale Quay Market


Red Snapper for sale at the Q Market in North Vancouver City, Canada.

Monday, July 04, 2005

4th Day of An Aimless Road Trip

On our way back to Cali, we took a little side trip to Crater Lake National Park. The view is awesome and pictures don't do justice to it.

Crater Lake is the 7th deepest lake in the whole world. The water is so blue although the sky isn't. This picture was taken on top of the crater. There's another volcano inside the crater and another one submerged in its deep waters.

This is like Taal Volcano in the Philippines.

Saturday, July 02, 2005

2nd Day of An Aimless Roadtrip

We left Rosburg about 7:30 this morning. Man, I tell you, the drive from there was so beautiful. We we're on I-5 the entire time but it was so beautiful. I used to visualize a flat, boring drive when I hear I-5. Today's drive totally changed that.

There were pine trees and evergreens everywhere. We went up hills and mountains and down to the valleys. Even the rest stops are beautiful! They look like they were nestled in the middle of a forest!

We stopped by Portland, Oregon's biggest city. We crossed one of their many bridges into downtown and parked right by their World Trade Center. From there, we walked to the water front and enjoyed the scenery. It was drizzling when we got there but it wasn't too bad. After our quick jaunt to Portland, we hit I-5 again and kept on driving North.

I wasn't really that impressed with Portland. Well, I don't think I can judge a city by the little tiny bit that I saw but I just didn't fall in love with it. It was just – blah. I'm sorry if someone from Portland is reading my blog.

But when we finally arrive in the Seattle area, damn, I wanted to stop right there and explore the city. I fell in love with Seattle the moment I saw its Skyline. I didn't have that "blah" feeling that I felt in Portland. We didn't stop though. We drove past Seattle thinking we might be able to get to Vancouver, Canada later this afternoon. But right after we got to Everett, traffic was so heavy and I thought maybe the wait at the US-Canada border will be too long. So instead of sitting in traffic, we decided to make a U-turn and headed back to Seattle.

Everett is only about 20 miles away so it wasn't really that bad. We stopped by a gas station to grab a Travel Discount Hotel Coupon Guide. I called a few places until I I found a reasonable rate that was right there at the Seattle City Center.

We stayed at the Travelodge right by the Space Needle! Okay, the place was blah. It has a bed, lamp, shower, AC – just the basics. But it was right there, close to everything. We even have a Space Needle View right at our door.

Since Space Needle was right there, we explored it first. Then we took the Monorail and walked about 4 blocks to Seattle's famous Public Market. This Public Market is the oldest Public Market in the US. Trust me, this place, is something you don't wanna miss when you go to Seattle.

Everything is so affordable. They were selling beautiful bouquets of flowers for $10! These bouquets are probably worth $30 in flower shops. This is also where you will find the World Famous Pike Place Fish Market. They do salmon throwing here which was fun to see. If you buy fish, lobster, crab etc. here, they can pack it for you – safe enough to go on a plane ride with ya. Is that cool or what?

We walked down into the second level of the Public Market and there it was – the restaurant where Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan shot one of their scenes in Sleepless in Seattle!!!!!! That was really cool. We then head to a Russian shop and had a Piroshki and something else – can't remember what the name was – but it was like a Piroski with cream and cherries. That was good. The piroshkis were big enough to get us by until dinner.

We headed back to the Monorail but we got sidetracked at the underground Bus line. The place was deserted. Apparently, they no longer operate on the weekends. It was cool though, walking through the deserted platform. Empty. Even the escalators were empty, though they were running. It was sort of eerie, kinda like a movie scene.

We got back on the Monorail and headed back to the foot of the Space Needle. We were gonna eat dinner at the Revolving Restaurant on top of the Space Needle but I thought it was very expensive for an aimless trip like this. 45 bucks was the cheapest for the main course. So we decided to check out China Town for a cheaper deal.

Seattle's China Town wasn't that impressive. And we didn't stop there for dinner. Iwas reading a tourist map when I came across a restaurant called "Typhoon." It's a Thai restaurant and it has been recommended by Bon Appetit, America's Food and Entertaining magazine as the best Thai restaurant in the US.

Didn't even think twice about it. I love Thai food. So we decided to check it out. The ambiance was nice. I loved it! The food was indeed very good. I've been to so many Thai restaurants but I have to say that yes, I agree with Bon Appetit. Best Thai Food so far. We ordered Crab Pad Thai, Grilled Trout and Pineapple Fried Rice. We also had Iced Tea. Trust me, everything was cooked to perfection! The only thing I didn't like was the absence of Thai servers. All their servers were either blonde haired women or some other nationality other than Thai. But the food was good. So no complaints here.

Then we drove around Seattle, exploring its different neighborhoods. We found one of the best view of the Seattle Skyline on 5th Ave. and hmm, I forgot the cross street but I wrote it down somewhere. It was just beautiful during sunset. Though I'm sure the skyline looks more beautiful on a boat but we didn't have enough time to catch one.

We drove around Seattle City Center one more time then we headed back to our lodging. Gotta get enough sleep for a long day tomorrow. We'll try to cross the border to Canada and explore Vancouver. This one should be exciting.

Ciao.

First Leg of An Aimless Roadtrip

I was chatting with Bing last night as I was getting my clothes ready for an aimless roadtrip. And so I asked her where should we head to and she suggested North. So North it is.

We started our trip around 6 p.m., Friday, expecting heavy bottlenecks along the way but we were so lucky . There was NO traffic anywhere. Not even on freeways going out of the Bay Area. After 6 hours we finally crossed the border into Oregon.

Luckily, we found a vacancy in 10 minutes in a little town called Roseburg. The price was kinda steep but I thought, well, it's July 4th weekend. So I kinda expected this aimless roadtrip to be somewhat expensive.

It's about 1 a.m. now. And gotta get as much rest as I can for the next leg of our trip tomorrow. Where to? I don't know.

I won't know. Not yet. Not until the tires stop spinning. But we're headed North, that's for sure.

*this was written at Windmill Inn in Roseburg, Oregon where we spent the first night of this 3-day weekend.

Friday, July 01, 2005

It Made My Day

I got to my office this morning and I found 2 chocolate bars sitting on my desk. It came with a note from my supervisor congatulating for my 1st Month Anniversary and that she really enjoys my enthusiasm.

How cool is that! :)

After a While

After A While
Veronica Shoffstall

After a while, you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
And company doesn't mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
And presents aren't promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open,
With the grace of a woman not the grief of a child,
And learn to build your roads on today
Because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans,
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight,
After a while, you learn
That even sunshine burns if you get too much,
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure…
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth.
And you learn and learn...
With every goodbye, you learn.

*found this on Abel's blog and it impacted on me so I'm posting it here. Thanks Abel. This poem made a difference in my life.